My baby went to heaven today

Mamas please be careful out there . I’m gonna copy and paste what I post on my social media but I want to put this out there . Oh my sweet babygirl. I didn’t feel like making a post about this and wanted to keep this time private but I want everyone to know that actions have consequences. Our daughter was taken from us. Wednesday my last ultrasound I was told the best news ever. “ we’re extremely surprised for how healthy she is due to your health problems. Healthy heart and healthy organs . She’s gonna be the most healthiest baby” until Saturday night at 9:26pm I was struck and hit by a drunk driver go 60mph running a speed light while I was making a left turn on a green arrow. Having so much force from the airbag causing her placenta to be damage . Getting her ultrasound and saying she’s doing really well , I needed to wait till her medication kicked in so we can safely induce her. With the complications from the placenta she died during birth. My baby life was stolen from her daddy and I . We wanted nothing more than a baby for years . After 3 miscarriages we were lucky to have 1 healthy baby girl until someone decided to get behind a wheel while being under the influence. They stole a grandchild to soon to be excited grandparents again , a cousin to our brothers and sister children , they stole a mother and fathers daughter who have been TTC and most importantly they stole her life. A perfectly healthy life 😞💔. I didn’t get to hear her cry , see her look at me or see her smile at all. Ellisianna , I promise it wasn’t supposed to be like this at all 💔. You were supposed to be here in November celebrating your first thanksgiving and Christmas with us. We never knew you , but we all love you ♥️. I know it’s hard but what makes it easy is knowing she’s with someone who’s gonna take so much better care of, and someone who was able to offer a better home . Jesus I pray that you please hold our girl for us and let her know that we love her. I want to say thank you for everyone who’s been reaching out to us and been trying to call. If we don’t answer please do not take it personal . We’re grieving and just want to spend the last moments we physically have with each other till it’s time for us to leave. If you call , please don’t be upset or offended. If you would like to help Jacob and I , you can help us by spreading the words to your friends , family , peers , coworkers or anyone to not drink and drive. It’s horrible that we had to go through this and never in a thousand years would we wish this on anyone. Save a life , get a Uber , call a friend. Not only did we lose our daughter but we also lost ourself dealing with this and knowing she’ll never be back. Please do not drink and drive and also to , don’t text and drive to and don’t drive if you’re extremely tired . This can lead to accidents that can steal a life .
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I’m so sorry for your loss💔, I can’t imagine the pain you are feeling right now… I can’t relate but if you ever need to vent or open up I’m all ears to listen! I’m praying for you and your family🙏🏼😭

This is unimaginable. I cannot and will not even pretend to relate, or imagine what your going through. My thoughts are with you. I am so so so sorry for your loss, she's beautiful. 🩷

Sending prayers and love to you and your family. 💕

Ellisianna is absolutely beautiful ♥️ I am absolutely heartbroken for you reading this post. I cannot imagine the pain and heartbreak you, your partner and family must be feeling. I feel no words are going to ease the pain you’re feeling and I am so very sorry. ♥️ You’re so very strong and I admire you so much for sending this message out to everyone. Your daughter is beautiful ♥️ Sending so much love x

I’m so sorry for your loss. 💔 Ellisianna is beautiful. My thoughts are with you at this time. xxx

Im so so sorry. There’s nothing anyone can say that will take this pain away. Two years ago, my son passed five days after he was born. No one knows why. He was born perfectly healthy. Your babygirl needed this time with you. She was nourished, loved and she felt and still feels all of that, and I’m sure she’s grateful for her mama and dad to give her space to be here even if just for a little while. Everything happens for a reason. And one day you’ll find out why. Right now I’m holding my two months old son, he came after a year of the storm. Don’t give up, one day after the other, it will still hurt, but you’ll learn to celebrate her every time someone ask if you have kids, and you’ll say yes, you have an angel. A very warm hug to you and your husband. ❤️

i’m so sorry , i know we don’t know each other but we are close by one another so if you need anything even if it’s just to talk or get out a bit feel free to reach out 🫶🏾

I’m so sorry for your loss

I am so sorry mama. I am over here bawling 😪 I wish I could find the words but I am praying for you and your partner 🤎 I know you don't know me but its looks like we're both in Wilmington. please don't hesitate to reach out if you need absolutely anything. A phone call, to meet up, to pray together, to scream, cry anything. Ugh my hearts hurt reading this. Rest peacefully little angel 🤎

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