Smh men

My oldest daughter’s dad always acts like he knows everything and it’s so infuriating. I asked him for help with 1 week of daycare because I was finally working, it’s cost 140 a week for the 6 year old. I messaged him on Monday and it wasn’t until today that he messaged me back because I messaged him a list of our daughter’s school supplies that she needs. He then says call WIC and get help. Anyways he starts calling me and telling me he’s tired of me not treating him like a father to her. I got to irritated. I told him, that’s not my job to let you be one. If you want to be one ask about her, see how’s she doing, ask if you can get her, be more involved in her life. …. All throughout the school year last year, he picked her up once, went to one school even because I asked Elena if she wanted him to go. If it was the opposite way and he had her majority of the time I’d be like “ hey is there anything going on at school? Do I need to help out to drop her off or pick her up? “ or “ is there anything you need help with?” Not once would I ever be like you don’t treat me like a mom. He sees her every other weekend so I have her 2 whole weeks before he sees her for a couple days and not once does he ever try to call her, try to see her or just ask about her. Anyways, he also mentioned that he was annoyed that I called his mom instead of him… I called his mom because Elena asks to see her, also her aunt just had a baby and she wanted to see the baby. He doesn’t ever go out of his way to do things to see Elena, pick up Elena. For example… Elena wanted to go see her grandma and I was tired. I live 30 minutes away. I would still go drop off my daughter, even if I’m tired and don’t wanna do it. Then he also mentions my youngest daughter dad. Said I probably treat him better. I just rolled my eyes because I had already told him that he wasn’t in our lives or Vivian’s. And he just didn’t believe me and kept saying “yeah whatever, you treat him better”