Behaviour

I wouldn’t say my daughter is naughty but for a while now she keeps misbehaving. I could be cuddling with her and be fine then she’ll randomly start hitting me and kicking. It’s at the point where she’s ripped part of my hair out and pulling my lashes out (I have lash extensions on) and she’ll just laugh at me. Any advice on how to deal with it or a better way to explain to her that she’s hurting me. We’ve tried time out and she’ll have a meltdown to the point of throwing up even if we say she can come back