Did i overreact?

So last night, my husband cracked a joke saying he needed BlueChew, but after looking it up, I told him he didn't need it as he never has a problem getting hard or staying hard. He then said "I just think of my grandma while fucking you. That oxygen tube and scooter just turn me on." I said seriously, to which he replied," What do you prefer I think of your grandma? I said my grandma is dead (dementia) he said no your other grandma, we haven't seen her in a while. I said you're sick and we haven't gone to see her cause you don't like going down there and he said we need to see her and take her to "lunch". I said again you're sick, and he said I'm only joking. I asked, "How do you even think that's funny?" He then got mad that I was upset and crying and saying I can't take a joke. After that we went to bed he told me not to touch or talk to him, after about an hour I'm almost asleep and he wakes me up claiming I need to help him answer question for HOA (which we don't have as we live in an apartment). He gets up uses the restroom comes back and proceeds to ask the first question which is what is your site number (we don't have a site number). He moves to question 2 which is something about a safe board (how many days without accidents) at this point I realize it's work questions about his work conpany. He laughed and said took you long enough jeez you're dumb. I'm in tears and again it's don't touch me from him and him being mad again. Did I overreact?