Leaving my daughter’s father.
I’m officially over it. I don’t think I can be with him anymore. I’m about to start my job next week after being laid off for 6 months. I just need to get on my feet before I can leave. I really wanted to make it work for the baby but I can’t stand him. He says such rude and things to me, about my body, my weight. I don’t want to be with a person like this. I’ve asked him to stop but he says it’s his way of teasing. Ok great well I still don’t like it and the fact that you won’t stop doing it is pushing me over the edge. I still have about 25lbs to lose from baby weight. I finally posted a pic of myself with my daughter today and you know what he wrote on there? “Big mama😯” I don’t deserve that. And he thinks I’ll never leave him because I have nowhere to go besides my mom’s house.Which is fine by me. Won’t have to pay rent for a little while and I can get myself together for my child until we can be on our own. I know this is a rant but I’m just so upset. And advice on starting on my own?
First of all he sounds awful! You don’t want your baby to hear him talk to you like that because that baby will be next! I’m sure you look amazing! You’ve got this! You can also apply for assistance to help get on your feet! I would say do not tell him your plan because it could be dangerous if he’s the violent type. Please stay safe!