To be upset that husband played football after work?

He works 9-5 then he plays football straight after work getting in at 9.20pm. I’m with baby alone all day and then evening too.., I just broke down crying because baby also gagged on some food and I have some anxiety so that didn’t help. Baby is 7 months old. I’m so tired and so very sad. Wish I had a more helpful husband that loved me

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Does he do this every day? Have you talked to him about it?

That’s not nice of him to do. If you’re home all day alone with baby it shouldn’t even be an option for him to be gone more, especially for recreational activities.

Is this a daily thing? Id speak to him and see if he can only go a certain amount of days a week

I’m all for having hobbies and having some downtime, but there’s got to be a middle ground here surely, being out until 9:20pm playing football is a bit ridiculous! When do YOU get downtime?! How is he the rest of the time, is he a hands on dad? If this is a one-off I’d probably let it go but if it’s a regular occurrence I’d be speaking to him about it because it’s not fair.

girl my man works away all week and i’m alone with the baby you will be fine if he makes it a regular thing speak to him ab how it makes you feel you deserve to be supported

If it’s only once in a while - fine, as long as you get to do something for yourself too. If it’s all the time.. helllllll nooooo