Idk what to do

The 5 year old I have no advice for. But as far as the other 2 it might help you to remember at their age they aren’t fully able to listen yet. The part of the brain that handles that isn’t fully developed until age 4-5. I try to remind myself that with my 2 year old when he doesn’t listen to me. He’s very smart, but that doesn’t mean he’s fully capable of listening. It’s developmentally normal for them to test boundaries and push out buttons. Maybe into another room and take some deep breaths or step outside briefly and remind yourself they are still so little and just doing what toddlers do

Following because I'm about to yeet my 4yo and almost 2yo out the house and keep the 3mo inside. It's just me with all day for 4 or 5 days until Dad gets home late Friday Night.

Thanks and my bd lives with me and he doesn't help at all I feel like I'm about to breakdown and feel bad about it at the same time