What would you do

Hey everyone, I’m just seeking advice or what you would do in this situation. I’m trying to figure out what I should do when it comes to my dad’s side grandparents. Every time I see them they give me panic attacks, they always tell me what I’m doing wrong and honestly I can’t even tell you the last time they said one good thing about me. Just one good thing. I cut my limitations around them a lot to where they’ve started to call me a seasonal granddaughter because I only see them around holidays or every so often. Today I went over with my 6 month old son to go swimming for a bit, because I’m supposed to dog sit next week for them so they were giving me a key for the house. And it was so draining, it’s always something about my future/ my son’s future, or my physical features they are targeting me for. It could be anything from my weight/being too skinny, to my teeth, to my heart problems and being “lazy”. I’m just tired of it all. I left their house borderline bawling because of how awful they’ve always made me feel. (BTW THEYVE BEEN DOING THIS SINCE I WAS A KID). They just make me feel like a huge disappointment and I’ve tried telling them but they don’t listen and it’s okay because “they are Christians and it’s not that big of a deal to point out flaws” I’m debating if I want to cut off contact fully or not but again that’s my grandparents so I have mixed emotions about it, and I’m already limited on how often I go over there because it’s something every single time.
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If your not ready/willing/wanting to cut them of start quoting bible verses at them like "Matthew 7:3 why do you see the specks of saw dust in your neighbors eye but ignore the plank in your own." And point out how the bible says not to point out others flaws. It was really the only thing to stop my family when they were judging me.

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