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@Skyla thank you ❤️ we have only been together a month and I told him he can’t move in till January when I have a bigger house with more room ect but lucky me he moved in within like 2-3 weeks been there 😫 like don’t get me wrong I like the company and the occasional kiss and cuddle but shit the bed he over does it! Doesn’t help clean, ignores the fact k don’t like shoes on my $240 mat for my daughter or just in side in general. I’m not much of a taker and he talks my ear off and when I say something to me he acts like a child about it and puts his head down in my arm if that makes sense 🥲 and not using a tissue omg eww I just can’t 😂😭😭
Yeah I had to do it and it wasn’t easy but you need to think of you. For me it became unhealthy as he was constantly wanting to be on the phone to me when he wasn’t with me. I ended up feeling suffocated. There’s no nice way to do it but just be straight to the point and cut all ties
My ex when I was like 19, he would not leave me alone, he would refuse to hang out with his friends because he wanted to spend all of his time with me, which may sound sweet but it was a bit too much and his friends were not very happy about it and blamed me even though I tried to get him to spend time with them, I told him that I couldn't allow him to put the rest of his life on hold for me and that he needed more balance. He didn't listen so I told him his friends hate me because of him shutting them out and that he was smothering me and it was best to break up before we ended up resenting each other. I felt bad but it was for the best.
I have actually been the one that was infatuated and he broke up with me over the phone. He cut all ties, no friendship and that was it... I just had to heal in my own time. All you can do is be honest about your feelings or the lack of mutual feelings. Let them know it isn't going to work and it's time to move forward separately. If you feel this person is obsessed, there can be no friendship. That will just complicate things and be more difficult. There are some cases where people can date, mutually break up and have friendship. This doesn't sound like one of those cases. Wish them well and be done with that situation. Good luck!