Body changes

Hi, this is my second pregnancy, my last one was just over 2 years ago. I’m really struggling with the changes to my body and weight gain. I’ve always had body image issues and disorded eating so I’m very sensitive to it. With my first pregnancy I was a lot fitter so looked better but in this pregnancy I just feel awful with how I look and my body is changing so much faster this time around! I was also very into fashion and I’m struggling to know how to dress that isn’t just black leggings and an oversized t shirt (which is totally fine too, it’s just not me). I don’t want to get weighed again by midwife either as find this so triggering. I totally understand if they needed to do it if they were concerned but I’m low risk and my bmi isn’t over the 30. I’m just wondering if anyone has felt similar to this and found ways to feel better about it?
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I feel EXACTLY the same!!! First pregnancy I had a neat little bump, didn’t feel like I gained much other weight except right at the end when boobs were huge. This time round even though my pace/weight gain is fairly similar I feel very unattractive and like I’m putting weight on everywhere. I think part of it is probably our body’s reacting slightly differently now they know what to do second time round everything gives a bit more but you’re certainly not alone! I’m just focusing on trying to stay active and eat well and trying to be excited for my postpartum fitness journey 💪🏻

I totally feel the same! I had lost 7 stone over the past few years and was terrified of gaining it all back now that I’m pregnant because I’ve got such a bad relationship with food! I also haven’t been able to do the exercise I was used to because I’ve been so exhausted! It’s been my birthday next week and I cried every single time I had to ‘dress up’ because of the way my body looks now! I’ve found the dressing in ‘tighter’ clothing is helping my confidence as it makes me look pregnant, not like I’ve just eaten too many pies!😂 it’s very hard to embrace changes in your body, especially when you aren’t in control of them! I’m so grateful and blessed to even be having a baby but I feel like the feelings surrounding body image aren’t talked about as much as they should be!❤️

For maternity wear I have some suggestions. My Mum went through her wardrobe with me to put together some winter maternity wear- the looks we did (which weren't leggings & T-shirt) are: - black/white long sleeved t shirt under strappy oversized summer dress, tights & boots. - blazer with plain T-shirt & culottes - oversized colourful shirt open down the middle with vest & maternity leggings underneath Hope that helps xx

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