I'm 30 weeks pregnant now. We weren't planning on having another baby again. When I suspected I was pregnant, I half didn't want to say anything to my husband about it, but I did, and then we kept it to ourselves until I entered my 2nd trimester. It took a couple of days for it to sink in for people. I honestly didn't care what their opinions were anyway, but everyone is excited for her to come now.
I just found out last week I'm pregnant again, and I also have an 8 month old. This will be my fourth. I haven't told anyone besides my husband, and my sister. I'm worried about the judgment from others but I'm choosing to focus on what my sister said and that's "those who matter will love and support you and those who want to judge can eff off" lol
I think it’s ok not too tell anyone right now. Maybe wait until the fragile time of pregnancy the first three months and maybe you could just tell your mom after or a sister you are close with. I’m sure your family will love the good news and will be happy for you.