Loneliness

I know this is somewhat airing out my drama but sometimes I just need someone to vent to. For the majority of the time, I feel okay, but other days can be very sad and lonely. My baby’s father decided to block me when I was about 3 months pregnant because he decided he didn’t want to be a dad anymore. I’m currently 6 months along and just wish that I could move on. However, I can’t help but wish that he was thinking about me as much I thought about him. We were together for a year and had a loving relationship until things turned when I told him I was pregnant. He started treating me awfully and some of the things he did and said are unforgettable. It’s weird though because the part that hurts the most is that he abandoned me, surprisingly not the brutal things that he used to say to me. I’m just praying I can move forward sooner than later because I know that he doesn’t care for me in the way that I do for him. 😕

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I’m so sorry you are going through this. I’m recently a SAHM full-time and get lonely as well. I can imagine how devastating that is to be abandoned during your pregnancy. 😞

@Amanda Thank you, I really do appreciate it. I’ve found that the only way to truly get through it is allowing myself to cry and feel sad when I need to. I really tried to ignore the sadness that I felt for a long time, to where everyone around me was telling me that I’m “so strong” and “handle things so well” but I definitely don’t feel that way on the inside. 😕

So sorry this is happening to you! Hopefully things turn around for you, if you have family close by lean on them for everything they can be a great support system. I have been here for about a year and still miss my family and friends from back home so much But with love it takes a while to move on from hopefully he at least reaches out to make sure you’re doing ok

I'm so sorry you are going through this mama. It is so unacceptable for a man to abandon his child and mother of his child like that. He helped create this life and has an obligation to help. I wish I could give you a hug. You are so wonderful for keeping the baby and already a good mother. I'm not the best at replying (sahm to a rambunctious 1 year old) but shoot me a chat and I'm happy to listen. I too have been abandoned by so many men when I needed them. Not your exact situation but I do get it on some level. It's good that you're letting yourself cry. It stimulates all kinds of helpful chemicals like dopamine, oxytocin and most of all endorphins. You sound so strong and will get through this. ❤️

He's missing out on the best experience of being a part of a family and that's not your fault! As confusing and disappointing as what happened is right now, everything happens for a reason. I hope you have a support system and if not we are here! There's also Colorado Springs Baby Mamas on Facebook! A great community of mamas who always come together for anything you need. You are not alone! 🩷

@Andrea My family has definitely been a great help and they’re very supportive. I just feel bad always leaning on them because I don’t want them to get annoyed with me being sad all the time. 😥

@Natalie Thank you, I appreciate it. ❤️ I’ve been relying on my family a lot during this time. I truly hope everything turns around for me one day and I find someone much better for me. I always try to remind myself that he’s the one missing out on my child’s life and I’m not. 😕

@Kellsey The feeling of overwhelming people with sad is so hard. I absolutely feel that way with my PPD/PPA and my husband.

@Kellsey I'm glad you have support! And don't feel guilty about leaning on them! They love you and love your baby.

Message me if you want to talk ever😊

Just know once baby’s here you will never be alone again! Baby’s gonna give you so much love and strength you’ve never felt before! I can’t believe people are still doing that in 2024 he will reap his karma, you got this mama!

You can message me if you wanna vent or talk or whatever. Sending love ❤️ You’ll get through this babe

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