@Diana that's where I'm at! I was very boarderline to responding "it'll be unfortunate if his grandmother doesn't like his name but it's not a criteria for us" but my husband spoke me off that war starting ledge 🤣 ... There's alot of family dynamics that we tread around carefully and putting any wedges between my husband and his mom will absolutely shatter her so it's increasingly exhausting to find new ways to say "butt out" nicely
If you love the name, don’t change it. It’s your baby, not theirs. My husband and I didn’t share the name of our boy until he was born exactly because we didn’t want any outside opinions and his parents especially were really pushing for a name I repeatedly said no to