Am I tripping or Am I tripping?

So little bit about us . We have 2 kids, and me and the dad are happily together. His mother lives with us we have had issues with her before, but nothing like this shit So I brought up wanting to set up a credit karma account and check the boys' credit. And she responded with she already did, and I said no to check their score . She said oh I have checking and savings for this child and a savings for the other. Once he's in school, I can set up the other account." I responded with you need their social security numbers, and she said she had them . I looked at her funny and go how oh Michael (kids dad ) gave the card to me they was in the bedroom so I thought he gave them to.me . Here's the things yall... he don't know them don't know where I keep them nothing about them . couple weeks back they went missing and she handed them to me saying she found them by the front door and now we're saying they appeared in her room Another thing she talked to his dad about these accounts and he told her not to open them . If she wanted to do something like this he wanted to be at the bank with her . he would have the kids' information. So again, she opened these accounts without permission to stole the kids' social security cards to do so. He told her not to open them in the first place . Let me also say I talked to him and he didn't give that information to her he wasn't comfortable giving his social and wouldn't ever give her the kids it's not for her to have ( she's in thousands of dollars in debt )

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My husband family is like this. I told him if they ever stole our baby info then I would call the cops. They steal them to get credit for themselves they have done that to him when he was younger. So I get what you are saying I would be pissed that isn’t something they should do and stealing it is a big no no.

It's the fact that we told her not she had to find the social security cards in are rooms to even get them. And are socials are grouped together . Mine his and the kids . Were having a conversation wensday with her .but I'm just trying to figure out am I over reaching? This is wrong right ? Regardless if it was for good intentions or not she stole the kids socials and opened accounts without are permission

This is definitely an invasion of privacy. She has no business going through personal stuff in the home, this is unacceptable.

Exactly and she took the socials and opened up the accounts after the childs dad said no she tried to get his social and he refused . And said something like thanks for nothing

Is there a way to check your childs credit? I've tried on the credit sites but need to be 18 or older

I would probably check she didn’t try get credit somehow. Not sure how to do this though