You're totally allowed to be upset, it's a big thing to find out! Congratulations on your baby girl! I think picking up a pink cake or cupcake would still make it special to surprise your husband!
That’s a bummer if you guys had planned to find out together, it’s ok to be upset. Unfortunately you can’t I know now, so I agree with the other comments, make it a fine way to surprise your husband! When you see his reaction you will be able to be excited all over again together and it will still feel so special ❤️
*unknow*
I'm so sorry! That is such a crappy situation! You can always stop at the store and grab a strawberry cake and have that as a desert as a surprise. Or even go to the gender reveal section at Walmart and look around for things you might like. Or guy some girl clothes in the baby section to tell him.