Maybe a little harsh as he is only 7 But also if he doesn’t play with them then what’s the point! I totally feel you as my SD (7) is the same because her mum lets her sit on the tablet/games consoles for hours a day so she doesn’t ‘play’ as such I think it’s fine to set the expectation - maybe point him in the right direction of things he will enjoy for his list
We’ve had the exact same conversation! SD has so much stuff under her bed shes never played with cuz shes got all sorts but only here friday-sunday. So we’ve had the exact same conversation to avoid any disappointment in christmas day