Is this disrespectful?

A guy you’re dating keeps calling you Dominican when you’re not. He’s like ooh my little Dominican etc. I told him to stop but he keeps playing around saying I look Dominican. I don’t have anything against Dominicans but it’s just weird.
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I mean, if you told him to stop and he won't, then yeah, that's disrespectful

It’s disrespectful for at least 2 reasons. 1: he is disregarding you by ignoring the fact that you said you aren’t Dominican. It doesn’t matter what you lt doesn’t matter what HE thinks you look like. Facts are facts. That’s like telling someone that they look like a criminal even when you aren’t. 2: you asked him to stop and again he ignored you. That’s the biggest problem. If it is something you don’t like and you have expressed it, then he should respect that. By him not, it is a red flag 🚩. Like I’d stop dating him cuz that could become a bigger problem on bigger issues. Him ignoring you, how you feel or what you say just because of what he thinks/feels. Like nah he isn’t better than you.

Sounds like this guy is fetishising Dominican women and regardless of you NOT being Dominican, he still wants to keep his fantasy alive. Time to chuck this one back into the sea.

He wants you to be something you’re not. Tell him if he keeps doing it, then go find a real Dominican 💁🏻‍♀️

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