@CeeCee being a mummy just changes everything doesnât it, your priorities are just totally differentđ„șxx
I feel the exact same too đ„ș
Iâm exactly the same I desperately donât want to go! Xx
I'm already back at work and I hate it. I hate leaving him and he's going through terrible sleep at the moment so I'm shattered and broke down at work yesterday đ„ș wish I could've stayed off longer
I completely understand that
It just feels like precious time wasted doesnât it! especially if youâre not particularly career orientated, Iâve always just longed for my own little family and work has just been money, now I have to leave what Iâve got to go back to work it seems so backwardsđą at least weâre all doing this chapter of life together!đ©·
I feel the same đ„ș I dont think youâre being dramatic. It sounds like you want to enjoy your childâs babyhood, be there for all the important moments, cuddle, make food for her rather than read about it in a daycare report card. â€ïž You have a lot of love for your baby girl and Im sure she can feel it đ€ You will figure it out :)
I was absolutely dreading going back to work, and the guilt I felt for putting my son into nursery was horrific. For anyone in a similar situation, we're one month in and thought of returning to work was wayyy worse than the reality of it. It's actually been nice to have that side of myself back. Most importantly, my little one absolutely loves nursery. He has a lovely little relationship with the girls that look after him, is always smiling and has so much fun there. He's there 3 days a week and I'm so much more present with him on our days off, that time is so much more valuable â€ïž One piece of advice I got and tried to stick by, was to not let the thought of going back to work cloud your last few days of maternity leave. I hope this provides some reassurance to mamas in a similar situation, x
@Sally thank you so much for this x
Yes! Feel absolutely heartbroken every time I think about it so I know exactly how you feel. Itâs just the worst thing ever but weâre all in the same boat â€ïž
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I feel completely the same, I could not care less about work đđ I feel like a totally different person