Some days I love the peace of being a single mom (not being abused/cheated on) but other days I’m so overwhelmed and frustrated that dad gets to live his life and I’m here sleepy asf with zero help.
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I agree. I am trying to find friends in my area 😭
Man I absolutely feel this so much!!!!! You are speaking the words of my heart.
You're not alone, I work from home and feel the same way
I feel the same . I'm w my boy(21 mths) 24 /7 . It makes me feel so guilty that I get upset w him but im just exhausted I don't ever get a moment to myself to just stop & breath. Im always watching and chasing him around or what he needs. I complain to the family members I do have and nothing ( they did help until he was 6mthish ) Im taking care of my elderly mom ,so she's not much help either since he started crawling. But I remember if I was w him . he wasnt gonna be much help ,I don't trust him alone w baby . He doesn't want to change or get help . So im saving my son from all the trauma and a dad in and out breaking promises. That's what I tell myself when Im upset .
I feel the same sometimes! How old is your toddler? I would try to find out if you can get assistance and get them in a daycare at least part time so you can have some time to yourself and balance out your life! Thats what I’ve done and it helps so much, plus your kid makes friends and then you can potentially make friends with their parents!!!!
21 mths . I didn't want to do daycare because of all the horror stories I saw. But I am looking into one maybe 2 days.. so he can have social interaction.More then just taking to libary, park etc. It's hard when u don't drive to get them there. The ones next to my house or a bus down the street, he has to be potty trained.
Praying for your strength ladies, I will look into daycare part Time because I also work from home as well. So it’s like I’m working 24/7. I will do my best to find a village for help some days because this is the hardest thing I’ve ever done wow .. and my family is so far and never offer any help
Same, we FELT this post Mama!💖 So many up’s & downs and obstacles to overcome month by month. Hope you find someone u can trust & depend on soon 🤞🏾
You need a tribe! Without friends it will swallow you