Is it my fault

So what the problem is this 21 months ago I was pregnant with my now 18 month old I went to town with my mom and sister as you do I have epilepsy servere epilepsy I Told my husband where I was going in case anything was to happen to me , night time comes I go to toilet at home and leave my phone in living room sister is messaging me saying oh you don’t need to tell him where you going it’s not his business my husband saw it and called my sister asking why she was saying stuff like that she ends up calling my mom and my mom calls my husband and calling him a black b word he told her to go away and never talk to him again the following day I went to my sisters house my mom was there all she kept talk about was my hubby and said if I stop her see kids she will call social on me (cause of my epilepsy ) so I stopped speaking to my mom haven’t seen her for 21 months My hubby forgave my sister 21 months have passed now and my sister was using me Everything that happened in last 21 months to me and my little family she has told everyone and so has my mother told everyone I use her as babysitter which I don’t I hardly see her and when she comes I’m home anyway has said bad things about me to everyone I have no one 😭😭

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It’s not your fault, your family shouldn’t treat your partner like this. I recently fell out with my sister because she made my partner feel really crappy about something I saw a quote that said don’t let your family ruin YOUR family and I think that’s so true. He shouldn’t be made to feel like he’s not important and I think it’s amazing that you’ve stuck by him through this and validated his feelings

I just don’t know why they have done this to me 😭

Some family members are just spiteful and don’t care how you feel! I know it’s easier said than done but try to not let it get to you too much you’ve got a beautiful little family now and I’m sure they don’t want to see you upset if they can’t apologise and make an effort than they ain’t worth it. My inbox is always open if you need to talk ☺️

Non of this your fault! Being epileptic does not stop you being a fantastic mother! Your husband obviously doesn’t doubt you abilities and your mom mentioning social services is a vile empty threat. I know it’s hard feeling like you have no one (I haven’t got a large support group) just focus on your little family ❤️ inbox me if you need to talk I’m also in the sedgley area if you are in the Dudley area so not far away ❤️