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Like technically you can obv

near ? i’d only be worried if it was inside/on it. but girl why are you doing that 5 days pp 😭

I would wait a few more weeks to do anything like that. I know it sucks waiting but if you do too much too soon you can really hurt yourself.

I'd wait. Isn't there a high chance of infection after birth? I had a natural birth and had sex 4 or 5 weeks after birth and oh my word it hurt so much!

@Izzie only because I want to feel close to him and because I don't him to leave me because I'm not healed yet. Idk. I'm scared.

maybe try to find ways to be intimate without being physical? i’m sorry you’re feeling that way and hopefully he understands what you went through giving birth, he should have no issues waiting for sex. if he does then he’s not being a good partner

I’d find other ways to be intimate at this point. But if you’re worried about him leaving because you’re literally healing from having his child, you might need to reconsider your relationship. You shouldn’t have to worry about him leaving you because you can’t have sex while you heal