Happy but sad

So I found out my baby is going to be a boy. I have a son and I'm very good with him and I love him so very much..... But I was kinda hoping for a girl. I only want 2 bio kids and I don't want to get pregnant again so I'm not going to try again. Anyway I got sad about it not being a girl and seeing how happy the baby's dad was because he got what he wanted. He's telling everyone it's a boy while I'm in ear shot and kinda hurts. Now I will love this baby to the moon and back and will do anything for him. Ig just a little sad rn. However good news he is going to have a normal birth thank goodness.
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Girl don’t feel bad about feeling that way, I was disappointed all 3 times with boys but that don’t mean I love them any less! I wouldn’t be without my boys but I completely understand the need for a girl 💓 at least you have time to get used to it, maybe go shopping for some cute boys outfits that always cheered me up 🥰xxxx

It’s sooo common to be disappointed. I have 2 boys and a girl. I really wanted another girl and literally all 3 of my kids wanted a sister. They were so disappointed when we told them it’s going to be another boy. We’ll all love him just the same but it’s hard not hearing what you want to hear and getting used to the fact that you can’t change it!

Completely normal. I had gender disappointment when I found out my second was another girl. I wanted to have a son so bad but now that my girl is here, I wouldn’t want it any other way. Sending hugs your way 🤍

I understand how you feel. But you always gotta humble yourself. It’s hundreds and thousands of women that cannot have children at all. It’s hundreds and thousands of women is having miscarriages be thankful and grateful I know you are but God giving you a healthy baby with all 10 fingers of toes just be thank.❤️

And toes

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I’m currently pregnant with my 4th. I have 3 boys. This is my last. We can’t afford another one after this or have the space for another one after this. My insurance covers nipt I found out(I thought I’d have to pay out of pocket since I am not high risk.) So I am doing that at 10 weeks and finding out early. Hoping it’s my girl this time but if it’s another boy it’ll give me time to get over any gender disappointment I may have over another boy.

So I am just saying it’s okay to have gender disappointment. I am sure you will still love your child regardless. It doesn’t make you a bad mom. ❤️

I was gutted when I found out I was having a girl. I always wanted a boy and when I found out I was having a girl I cried for months and now 2.5 years later I love my princess whilst she was growing inside of me and now she’s my world and I couldn’t imagine life without her. It still hurts that I didn’t have a boy but I’ve got time to have another. Xx

Yea I went through that with my second and with my 3rd. 3 boys. Dad was ecstatic. I’ve decided to try one more time. What are the odds! 😆

Never say never ( unless u get your tube tide) and it’s ok to be a little sad and you’ll always wonder what your daughter would’ve looked like if u had one etc but there’s no doubt once your baby is born, he will add more joy to your life and you’ll be happy & content & probably tired ( bkoz boys have way too much energy fr 😂)

I have 4 girls was hoping one of them would have been a boy i want to experience having a son

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