Christmas
First year coparenting any advice on how to do it amicably this time of year in terms of time spent where and with who daughters dad also has another child from previous relationship whom he sees Boxing Day used to love this time of year now loathe it and wish for the new year to come around makes me so upset đ
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Thank you is tricky as we are still living under same roof (in process of selling our house!) he also works nights and is on shift Christmas week so likely time will be split this year during the day defo important to communicate and plan as you said so is fair for all parties and of course the main thing our little one spends the time with us both
You make it amicable by talking about the plans before hand. Whether you will be splitting the day, or if it will be one person day one year another the next year, or if someone will get the next day or the day before. Discuss pick up times and drop off times and everything in between, including what presents both are getting to not repeat and no letting LO bring gifts back and forth initially. If you have a plan before hand it can help to not be upset at any surprises since you have already talked about it. and you can know when you have time without any and do something with friends/family or yourself you may not be able to do so easily with your child.