Daycare!

Guys my little girl has just turned one and I came to the realization today that we may need daycare pretty soon and I am devastated. I’ve been working and having her home… which was ALOT but it’s starting to affect my performance. I’m currently looking at daycares but my heart is with my baby it’s also super expensive. How do you guys cope? Any advice???
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Do you parents that could stop by a few hours during the week? Friends cousins. Someone to just come over a few hrs during the week and play with the baby & that way you can focus on your job for a good two hours or something along those lines. Have everyone rotate. Just a thought 💭

My daughter’s been in daycare since she was 3 months. Not exactly my choice but I had to return to work. I check in on apps and FREQUENTLY message the teachers on how she’s doing, what she’s doing and to share photos. It’s never like having her home with me, but I’ve learned once I pick her up to spend a lot of time together

I had to put my daughter in daycare when she was just three months old because I had to go back to work. This is when I was 100% in the office. It was the hardest thing for me to do, but I eventually got over it and learned to love having her in daycare. Also was a really good thing for her because they potty trained her, got her off the pacifier and she just flourished when she had caregivers that could dedicate their time to her. But with my son, I totally get you. My husband and I work from home and he just turned one and is getting a little much to handle while working. The thought of putting him in one makes me sad as well as I’m used to having him here. I also want him to socialize so we need to get him in at some point. Don’t worry, mama stay strong you got this! 💞

Oh, mama, I feel you. That first step into daycare can be so hard on the heart. It’s tough to think about being away from your baby, but remember that you’re doing this for both of you so you can be the best version of yourself at work and still give her all the love when you’re home. Take your time finding the right place. Visit, ask questions, and trust your gut. It’s okay to feel emotional about it; it means you care deeply. As for the expense, some places offer sliding scales or assistance programs—look into what’s available in your area. And give yourself grace. Transitioning to daycare is big, but kids are resilient, and it might even help her develop new skills and friendships. You’re doing great, even when it feels overwhelming.

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