Men are pretty annoying if you know someone in a relationship hangout with them and hear all the unnecessary stress they have. Hearing everything my mom and dad go through makes me not want a relationship. Keep yourself busy with your kids and friends or hobbies
I always center my focus on the kids, especially when guys ask me “wyd?” Or “Can I see you?”, if I’m NOT available because of the kids, they either totally ignore me for days so I know they weren’t truly interested. These men make it easy, just find little projects to utilize your free time up. Do something for YOU as well.
Like someone else said, hobbies! They’re so fulfilling lol
Hobbies!! lol things to keep my mind off of things… it has been helping me at least and I haven’t had a serious relationship in 6 years