If you don’t get invited to a family kids party

I live very far from family- I wouldn’t be weirded out if no other family was invited but if it was just us I would have some questions

My partners sister had a party for her little boys 2nd bd and I got told about it through his cousin who doesn’t even have a kid! The day before the party as well 🙃 Very strange as we live 5 mins from them? Didn’t expect a reason but was a bit upset

@Georgia the party is tomorrow. I don’t show up unless invited by the person throwing the party. My mother in law told me they’d throw him a party I said cool and told me it’s tomorrow. I know it’s her son and she can invite whoever she wants especially first birthday. But they’re throwing a party. My partner has an 8 year who I’m not sure if she’ll attend but it might and that’s another aspects that just rubs me the wrong way

Was your partner invited?

I'd move on and live ur life

I usually get relieved when I'm not invited to things, not offended 😂 phew, I get to stay at home! but that's just me.

@Caroline when you don’t have any family (no sister or brothers no cousins ) you really hope that ur partner family will take you and ur child in like their own. I know half the time it’s not like that but I’d like some type of family involvement. I’ve been with this man for almost 6 years the behavior they have with me is different but then I see the same treatment being done with my son. I sent a happy birthday video from my son to her wishing baby cousin a happy birthday and she just hearted it no thanks. Her son is 1 and my son is 2.

@Ella im sure he would’ve told me. But idk also feel like women to women she could’ve just texted me or DM me about it.