I'm tempted to delete it completely am I toxic?

I don’t think snap is a problem unless one person in the relationship makes it a problem. If you told him you both shouldn’t have it then he should respect that. Which I’m sure if he felt some way about it you would comply. I also don’t think it’s toxic, some might saying it’s controlling BUT it seems he is only using it for other women. Which is obviously a huge problem and devastating. Are those girls really more important than his wife?? It should be a quick decision for him to delete it. I would be livid if I were in your shoes.

Agree with above

I just asked if I could delete him off my friend list since he doesn't use it. He told me he didn't use it. I even told him how to delete the account. HE was the who said we'll both delete it. It just doesn't make sense we had agreed but no I see different girls and more requests

You really don’t deserve that and you have every right to feel the way you do. You should just try and tell him how it makes you feel and ask him would he like it if the roles were reversed? This is a major red flag that would bother tf out of me too.

I expressed to my husband a few weeks ago that Snapchat makes me uncomfortable because of cheating in previous relationships. I went through his phone a couple days ago and he had deleted it without telling me. I brought it up yesterday and he said having snap would never be worth having if it made me uncomfortable. You have rights to boundaries.