How to learn kind of ignoring crying
Oh...my daughter cries so often , often is just crying without tiers , when it can turn into laughing...she does it often for attention...but is a way quite often, when we are out, in public transport, groups...is hard for me, I am also heavily pregnant and with very very little help...plus my mental wellbeing not that good and her crying makes me so drained mentally...any tips what can I do ?
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Thank you Kristine, I think ignoring is a wrong word I choose in this context, is more how to not to be mentaly drained from her crying. I even talked to professional about her behaviour, and she said that in some situation I just have to ignore, but is so hard for me mentaly to tolerate her crying 😢
I got loop esrplugs. You can still hear everything but it kinda takes the edge off.
I was thinking to use earplugs too..maybe it will help little bit
Validate her feelings. For example: It will make the crying less intense most likely. You’re sad, you wanted that toy and mommy said no, it’s hard. I’m here for you. Ignoring will only make it worse.