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UK - how does anyone work with a child at preschool?

I just don't understand how anyone is holding down a full time job and having g a child a preschool where they are looked after usually from 9am - 3pm. What does your work schedule look like? How are you getting around this?

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No daycare, is that weird?

We have a 2 year old boy and we’ve never sent him to daycare or any sort of childcare, is that bad? We’ve moved a lot since pregnancy (due to Covid and work) eventually we just got used to working around him/his schedule. But I see so many moms/parents putting their child in daycare really young and now I’m thinking...

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Nursery and holiday

Please don’t judge me for silly question but I’m not from this country and still trying to understand how the childcare works here I have a question around holidays, we are currently doing three days at nursery but would like to take a longer break during summer as it’s our habit. So probably will be away for thre...

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Baby sitting

If you have your child in an in-home baby sitting while you are at, do you pay when your child is not there? Like if the child is scheduled for 4 days a week and is sick two of the days, do you still pay the sitter?

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Nursery applications

Does anyone know how long roughly it takes to be accepted into a nursery after applying? We went to view one last week and was very happy with it so applied straight away, a week later and I’ve still not heard anything. Is this normal? New to it all lol

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Back to work

Anyone else dreading going to work tommorow? I'm so thinking about not going like I'm so anxious she starts daycare tommorow!!

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Day care nervousness

I am extremely nervous to start day care for my 8 month old next week. Will he adjust? Will the provide a quiet environment for sleeping? He is used to sleeping in the quiet. Will he sleep with other kids playing around? My son is used to sleeping in a soft mattress and I think his day care has the packnplay with ha...

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Daycare at 8 months

Has anyone’s baby started daycare around this 7-8 month age? Curious how the transition went - did baby cry a lot , how were the naps

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Newly Single

How do you guys do it with 2 Babies and no family support? How do you afford child care ? I’m on the verge of leaving but cant figure out how I will manage at all with 2 under 2

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Black history month at school: I know it seems obvious but the fact that they had to still write it in means it’s really not that obvious to a lot of families in 2025. How crazy

Thursday it says “Dress up as influential African American figure. No face painting or bring a book of an influential famous African American to carry around with you.” Yah—hey parents don’t allow your child to show up to school in black face. I mean how crazy is it that we still have to remind grown folks to not d...

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Tax free childcare limits

I have opened a tax free childcare account for my second child who started nursery in January. For some reason the limit for top ups is much lower than the £500 I anticipated and I have already used it all. I’m only entitled to £230.77 in top-ups for my second but £500 of unneeded top-ups for my first. I’ve tried ...

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Starting school advice

As our LOs will be going to school next year, when do you start looking at schools? open days etc?

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Back to work days

Anyone else had to go back to work 4 days a week or more hours etc. than initially expected? I'm really stressed by this because I planned on working 3 days a week but unfortunately have to go back 4 and I've struggled to find a job in my field that will let me do anything less than 4... I'm feeling so stressed th...

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Recommendations for babysitters

Hi can any parents recommend any babysitters out there just for few hours to watch the kids? Thank you

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Childminder recommendations

Looking for a Childminder around Lincoln county hospital to enroll my little girl in for three days a week. Any recommendations will be appreciated

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I know this is super random but…

Are school nurses like real nurses? Nursing school and all? I’ve always worried that

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UK - does childminding pay good money?

Hi guys, I have been a nurse for many years and I do love it but have been thinking about a change of career. I would love to do childminding, I love working with children and would also love to help working parents as I know how tough it can be trying to find good quality childcare. Currently as an NHS nurse on ban...

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Kids nurse costumes should just be scrubs

Vs like cutsey candy striperesque ruffly skirt and metallic and bows Like… nurses don’t look like that and it feels modeled after adult sexy nurse costumes (I’ll add pics in comments)

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Control

So my son is only 4 and states prep school. His dad is constantly going on about football and how that’s the only thing he should focus on. Now I don’t mind him wanting to do football, I just don’t want him to turn into a zombie or one of those where nothing matters just football. Now with him only starting prep, h...

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Funding for 3 years

Can someone please help me my little boy is now 3 I pay for him to do two days at nursery I keep seeing free 15-30 hours for 3-4 year olds I don’t work but my partner does will my little boy still get the funding if so how do I apply I’m so confused

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