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Baby leaving the nest

My baby is barely one year old, and I’m suddenly super depressed thinking about the day she will leave the house. I just want to be with her forever.. 🥺

K
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Night sweats

I’m 2wks postpartum after a Csection and EBF, when will the night sweats stop? 😓

Incognito
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Husband has more negative to say than positive…

He’s not the type of man who gives compliments or really says anything encouraging or positive about me. But he’s more the type to have banter and just poke fun at me or say something negative. And I’m all for a bit of banter but when there’s no positive to ever balance it out sometimes I am saddened or hurt by it. ...

Incognito
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Sex after birth

When did you all start having sex after birth I’m two weeks pp and oh my fuck my sex drive is through the roof and I’m inpatient 😅😆😤😣 I haven’t had any pains down there what so ever my c section scar looks perfect my bleeding is starting to turn yellow brown colour any ideas on what to do I can’t take it anymore…

N
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An overwhelming position

Hi y'all, I'm a new mom on the spectrum. I would lied if I said everything is pink. My husband sadly doesn't understand that because in his head, no way I could have autism. I have to take care of a 3 months old alone 90% of the time (from 6am til 10pm). It gets overwhelming sometimes. Any tricks you can give me?...

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MIL

My MIL for some time now refers to my little girl as "granny's baby" and when she talks about herself to her has called herself "mummy" and I just find it really inappropriate. She usually corrects herself straight away but I'm sat there thinking, is that what she calls herself when I'm not there? Today my daughter ...

Incognito
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Smoking cannabis while pregnant

Every doctor says that’s bad for the baby but I’m emotionally going through a post partum depression after losing a baby (October through December) and also through a prenatal depression being pregnant now (3 months) none of them where planned and I was even on birth control. I’m happy that I’m pregnant now and hope...

Incognito
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Climax

Anyone else taking 2 business days to finish!? (Being dramatic for effect) I’m 6 months postpartum and when I’m in the zone it usually takes me a few minutes. So I won’t use my toy until I know he’s close too. But ever since having my baby it takes me like 30 minutes WITH the toy and I start to get angry and sweat a...

Incognito
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Is this baby blues?

13 days PP and I keep randomly bursting into tears for absolutely no reason. It’s nothing in particular, my PP journey and recovery has been a dream so far, baby boy is so good and my partner has been the best support and daddy I could ever wish for. I feel so so happy and lucky and I love them so so much that it ma...

Incognito
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Update- 39 week induction panic mode

It’s me, hi. I’m the problem, it’s me… 🥹 I previously posted about scheduling a 39 week induction, and the hospital just called and confirmed my appointment for April 13! Now, I swear this is what I want, but I have not been able to stop crying and I am essentially having an anxiety attack. A complete…

M
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Postpartum feels

Why is postpartum so lonely and isolating. 😖

Incognito
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Can being a mom be peaceful and does it have to be stressful?

So my boyfriend is being pessimistic about the whole thing and he said your pregnant you will never have a peace again in your life and that kinda made me feel depressed a little bit I just really need some reassurance and someone to talk to and yk vent

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Struggling

Hi! I currently just got diagnosed with bipolar while I’m 32 weeks pregnant. I’ve been struggling for the last two months with my mental health. Are any other moms struggling the same way or have been through the same stuff? I just don’t want to feel so alone in this or crazy.

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Is there any relief for Hip pain while Sleeping

Hi Ladies I am struggling with hip pain while laying on my sides I switch throughout the night and usually scream a bit? Is this how painful birth feels? Thank you so much if you have any reliefs please let me know :)

J
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Mum’s of 2

Anyone else feeling extremely guilty, I can’t give my baby the same attention that I gave my first and I’m honestly racked with guilt. I just feel so bad that I can’t give him all that attention. He’s a little behind on some milestone (not anything to worry about) but I can’t help but feel like it’s my fault because...

Incognito
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hair

my newborns hair is always looking greasy, i’ll wash it one day, and the next it’s looking greasy. What could be the reason for this

Incognito
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Birth trauma

Has anyone experienced a traumatic birth? Did you receive support from a birth afterthoughts service? Was it helpful? I am in the process of this but scared to be re-traumatised. Tia

Incognito
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When to start leaving baby with partners parents.

I’m wondering if I’m being overly anxious about leaving my son with his grandparents on my partners side. For context I was only having to have words with my mother in law a few weeks ago due to breaking boundaries in many ways including with my baby. She claims that she doesn’t do this on purpose and it is ‘clumsi...

Incognito
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I know putting stress on myself isn't going to help matters, but just need somewhere to rant

Period has come today, TTC after chemical pregnancy, I just feel like my body is not working as it should 😥 anyone that can cheer me up today, I keep crying 😭

Incognito
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Hairloss

Hi my baby is 4 months old And I'm losing so much hair Has someone else going through the same ??

C
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