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Partner problems

Hi, I just wanted to ask what’s normal for everyone now with their partners, since their baby. My partner and I are on holiday atm. I was super excited to have some time together, especially also to have sex for the first time in ages! However, he forgot to pack condoms. Thinking about it, he’s ‘forgotten’ to buy ...

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Am I over reacting?

My partner came up to me and said he bumped into someone he use to date when he went out for a birthday dinner over the weekend. She heard he had a baby and he showed her a photo and she told him it should have been her. I havent reacted at all to be honest as I don’t know what to say. My sister was on the phone and...

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What are you guys doing for contraceptives?

What are you guys use as contraceptives? My husband doesn’t like to use condoms. I always end up taking a Plan B. I found myself pregnant and I had a miscarriage and I really don’t wanna be pregnant again. We’ve been doing pull out method and it hasn’t been effective. Birth control ruins me and I’m scared of weigh...

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Husband different response to s*xy things

The last time and now, this time I've given my husband a BJ he hasn't seemed to enjoy it... he said it hurt then it took a while to finish and it was barely nothing. . Does this mean he got it somewhere else better? Or he's getting bored? We've been together for 5.5 years and I'm not changing anything I'm doing duri...

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Looking for some mummy/mummy to be friends💙🩷

Hiya, I’m 22 and a mummy to the cheekiest boy you’ll ever meet, with another bubba on the way! However I’m seriously lacking in proper mummy friends, I love napping and more importantly tattoos so feel free to message me or send me your socials if interested in making a new friend!x

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Looking for mummy friends🩷💙

Hiya, I’m a 22 year old mummy with a 2 year old son and another bubba on the way looking to make some proper friends for meet ups and play dates within the Romsey, Hampshire area!x

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Contraception

Hey girls can you please mention which contraception method has worked for you?

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Utis

anyone else been on uti antibiotics? In my urine sample i did at the midwife it came up as i might have a uti and she put me on antibiotics but i felt like it was more thrush that i had. Could it be both?

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Savings tips

Anyone have any savings tips or ways to not spend so much money? - especially from SAHM/ PT working mums with limited incomes.

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SAHM

Just wondering if anyone else has decided to be a SAHM since having their baby? I now live in Wales so get no free childcare until my daughter is 3. I’ve always worked, I didn’t really have a career, I was an administrator, so if I went back to work my entire wage would go on childcare, essentially I’d be working ju...

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Mum friends?

Hey there, I'm hoping to make some mum friends on here whether it's online or in person (last one being unlikely as people from my country aren't really on here), but I travel to London and Helsinki a few times a year so there's potential of meeting and hanging out! I'm 24yo, mum of an 8 month old little boy. I don...

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Am I wrong?pls read all

Ok so I’m in my third trimester and me and the baby father have always had sex since the very beginning with no complications. But now and even before I got pregnant I wouldn’t really be satisfied. He don’t make me cum, he don’t be lasting , he don’t make me wet, he don’t eat me out and it be so frustrating bc I do...

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Having the coil fitted tomorrow!!

Having the coil fitted tomorrow and I’m really unsure on which one to have , a non hormonal or hormonal one. I was told the non normal one ( copper ) can make your periods heavy and painful. Or the hormonal one (marina) can make you have light periods. I had a baby 8 months ago and was having the injection but it wa...

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Mam friends

Anyone else on maternity or free during the week and want to meet up sometime? My partners due to go back to work soon so could do with some plans 😂 I have a 8 week old little girl and my sons 4 ♥

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Anyone want to meet up for a drink?

Hi, I’m looking for some friends to meet up with. In my area I’ve not really found anyone my age or around my age and it has been hard making friends because we’ve not had same interests or been in the same stages in life. I’m 22, I have a little girl who is currently 2. Weekends would be best. I live in Farsley nea...

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Gift Ideas/suggestions

Hi, Could you ladies suggest some gift ideas..i want to say thank you to my sister, who pregnancy end has been amazing, to the point she was called mid way through me going into labor, early hours to come pick up my youngest who my husband had to drag out of bed and bring with him. She lost her baby in October 24 an...

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Feeling alone

I'm almost 14 weeks pregnant and this might sound strange but I've never felt so lonely, I don't really have many friends and my hormones make me so un tolerant of anyone. As soon as I feel an iffy vibe they are deleted. Now you might say it's you who's removing yourself from people but honestly pregnancy makes you ...

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1st birthday

Please could I have some suggestions of first birthday presents ? 🎁 just curious to see what people are buying/recommend

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Bestie westies near Covington

ISO friends duh aren’t we all lol… hoping to find women that want to hang out, kids included. Coffee date, park, home, etc. Let’s converse with a glass of Stella, watch tv, watch the kids play on the trampoline, go for a stroll around the neighborhood. Needing none judgy friends that are down to earth… life is har...

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Maternity pay

I'm just trying to work out my finances for the next year (because we've stupidly just started moving house!). I'm not sure if I've imagined this but I seem to remember with my previous baby, my employer split my total pay equally over the 9 months. Basically rather than starting off on full pay and then gradually d...

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