Community Posts, Tips & Support on Adoption, Fostering & Surrogacy

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Colostrum

Has anyone collected colostrum from 37 weeks and gone over due date?

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I see a lot of people saying they don't allow their vaxed kids around unvaxed kids, why is this??

Surely, if your kids are vaxed, they're protected?? Not hating on anyone, just genuinely curious.

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Colostrum Harvesting

Is anyone struggling with collecting colostrum? I am 39 weeks tomorrow and have been trying for just over a week and am getting nothing. Any tips? Anyone had it take time like this?

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Boundaries

Am I going overboard for having these types of boundaries? I’m creating them based off of what happened with my first child. There’s more to the list as well 16 total

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Harvestered

Soon to be a new mummy Very proud moment 36 plus 4 days Just harvestered for the 1st time and managed to fill a whole syringe 💉😀

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Catholic baptism

Do you need god parents for a catholic baptism? We are choosing to get our baby baptised as catholic, I'm catholic and my partner is Protestant, he wouldn't be religious though meanwhile I'm not very religious but have faith. My partners family would be the type they wouldn't step in a Catholic Church so wondering i...

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Childminding and safeguarding against abuse…

I look after my son (18 months) full time and have no help from family or anyone. There is no nursery in our town for under 3s. I am considering a childminder for one afternoon a week, but my concern is safeguarding from abuse. I feel a bit uncomfortable blindly trusting another adult - even if they seem really love...

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☁️Advice needed ☁️

For those of you that have had ‘the first grandchild’ anyone got any tips for dealing with smothering parents (the grandparents) who are meeting your baby for the first time? My mother is rather opinionated and shes ‘always right’, my dad is a constant worrier who in turn rings me 3-4 times a day, regardless if i an...

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Birth certificate

Is it worth putting dad on birth certificate for child maintenance ?

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👶🏻Gentle parenting (GP)👶🏻

See option: 1) You gentle parent and grew up with gentle parenting 2) You gentle parent but didn't grow up with gentle parenting 3) You don't gentle parent but grew up with gentle parenting 4) You don't gentle parent and didn't grow up with gentle parenting

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What a Dilemma

We are evaluating moving back to home state to have more support in our life. A few years ago we went no contact with my in laws & moved out of state due to work. Since we have reconciled because we want the best for our first child. But there was no apology and the family dynamic remains the same. Have anyone e...

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Trump separated mother's from their babies last time. Some kids saw things they never should have. So sad.

"How Trump Came to Enforce a Practice of Separating Migrant Families - The New York Times" https://www.nytimes.com/2018/06/16/us/politics/family-separation-trump.html

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Baby sharing

Did your family understand that when your newborn cried, to give him back to you so you could feed/soothe him? Or did they just try and do it themselves? And think they just need to be bounced rather than fed?

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Kendamil

Any luck finding Kendamil? I have one can left and I’m getting a little nervous. I really don’t want to switch her 😩

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What’s ways to show appreciation after thinking actions isn’t good enough and bare minimum?

TW : After being in this group reading some of you guys post, l have came to the realization that I may have one of the world's best baby father and I need ways to show him hm I appreciate him (FOR THE BARE MINIMUM) because your stories is literally like coming out of lifetime or the maury show and I just wanna say...

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Stay At Home Moms who live off benefits and still put their kids in Nursery !!???

Honestly, I don’t understand this! People who live off benefits some of them committing some level of benefit fraud, lying that they are single, when they have husbands who work full time and getting benefits for their kids and for housing, and they choose not to work to take care of their kids and then they even go...

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Why are people so judgmental

I posted a question on here genuinely trying to get answers because I want to be a good Mom and do the best I can for my kid and I want more than anything to be a great Mom. I understand that my own upbringing can influence my instincts and not be what is actually best. I want to be better than my parents were. I wa...

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You won’t like my take: just because your religion says to be “fruitful”, it makes you an IRRESPONSIBLE parent if you knowingly can’t afford future children but keep pumping them out with no plans on how you will meet basic NEEDS.

Don’t say it’s the economy. People have been planning to have kids knowing dang well they don’t have enough money to meet basic and essential needs of the child.

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Thoughts and opinions: children don’t know they’re poor/rich

Meaning you don’t tell them anything, they come to their own conclusions

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Egg collection

I have to trigger tonight for egg collection on Thursday. Really nervous for the procedure, has anyone found it okay? I’m also worried about the trigger and if it will hurt 😂 I’ve been doing gonal f and fyremadel and been struggling a bit with the injections.

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