Mums of Two

Anyone recently become a mummy a second time round? My beautiful girl was born in September 2020, just had a little boy in April this year. My daughters behaviour has changed so much and she is really struggling with being a big sister 😢 I’m trying to include her in everything, changing nappies, choosing his clothes, helping get him on the boob but I can tell she’s feeling really left out. She loves small world toys and role playing and it’s really hard doing this whilst I’m feeding her brother as EBF (like I did for her). I’m trying to tell her that everything I’m doing for him I did for her too. She’s an advanced little one, her speech is incredible but her behaviour has definitely declined and it’s so hard to deal with. Just wanted to know if anyone had any coping strategies or advice? I love her so much but really finding this mum of 2 life tricky which is really sad! The newborn is far easier than the toddler at the moment, that’s for sure! Xx