@Sarah Rhode Island
Damnn sis I haven’t really heard good things about Rhode Island . Do you have family in any other state?
Sorry ur experiencing that maybe try look into the meetup website and see if there is any groups you can join that seem interesting. There’s also an app called bumble to make friends.
I'm so sorry that it's not welcoming. I have traveled a lot and haven't felt as safe as I do outside new york because of the things you mentioned, BUT, there are usually small pockets of kind people in alternative spaces like yoga studios. I hope you find a community that cherishes you.
Where did you move?