Yes all the time and I am trying my best and it’s very annoying
Yep. my husband especially does this. Makes me feel as if I'm not doing a good enough job. Says I'm not doing certain things enough. Even though by comparison it just seems like he's projecting his own insecurities cuz he decided half as much as I do with the baby. We know our babies. We do our best. We do what we can. And others don't have your baby enough or at all to tell you what to do.
I get this, had a meeting with my manager and had to take my 2 month old with me, she got the hickups and was restless because of the heat. I'm ebf and been told and read that bf babies are to only have water if Dr's say so but my manager made me feel so bad for not having a bottle with me and not giving her water. Just listen to your gut, you know your kid better than anyone else, as long as they're happy, fed and clean everyone else's opinion is irrelevant