Boyfriend

Uh yeah. I left mine 😂

@Lucy any particular reason?

A few reasons, he was useless and never helped me out with baby. We left him when she was 4 months old. I have an older child who isn’t this exes child but he literally never paid any attention to him once his daughter was born. Recently been seeking help and found out he was actually sexually, mentally and financially abusing me and I had no idea lol. I think to be honest if you have a healthy relationship with your partner and it’s a bit stale once having a baby, it’s probably because you’re hormonal still, it’s a big change, you’re all adjusting and it’s a very tough time. Talk to your partner about how you’re feeling, see if it’s worth working on. I think it’s normal to not want men around once you’ve had a baby, especially if you feel you’re doing it all alone

@Lucy minee is utterly useless also wont get a job, I do everything and maybe once a week he'll decide to give her a bottle or change her, plays his computer all night and most of the day then sleeps during the day and repeats this until I snap. I talk to him about it over and over and it changes for one day than back again. I also didn't want him when I was pregnant either. I just want my daughter to grow up in a good home because I didn't.....

Sounds just like my ex! Get rid! He will not change!

@Lucy just makes me so sad because we were so happy once and he does treat me good apart from that stuff

You’ve really gotta think does the good outweigh the bad? Are you in a relationship or are you mothering him? I used to feel the same about my ex, I can’t leave him we have a child together. I can’t leave him he’s accepted my son who isn’t his. I can’t leave him because I really will be alone. I can’t leave him cuz sometimes he is nice to me and we have a laugh. Both, me and my kids are SO much happier since I left him. Honestly the best thing I ever did.

@Lucy thank youu for this 💖 glad to hear your doing better 😁

Do what’s best for you and baby! Always here ❤️

I left mine

@Rosemary McMurray reason? If you don't mind me asking 😁

He kept giving me empty promises and didn’t even have a job to even pay rent. He also spoke very horrible things to me. Told me he wished I was me before baby. Called me lazy. Told me I deserved the abuse I got from an ex of mine. Told me if he wasn’t a man he would’ve done same thing. The list goes on and I have all the recordings. Even told me everyone at McDonald’s (my old job that I had while I worked pregnant) said she’s better off with him than me which I know is a lie because I texted half the crew.

He never really helped either with her. I have done everything alone since day 1.