Thank you all! And when I say angry I don’t mean like mad, just disappointed. We used condoms. And I just had my iud ordered for placing next week. I wanted to wait until I healed a bit more from the birth. They said I could have possibly gotten pregnant while I was pregnant lol. Not common but rare.
Hey @Kamara (Kam) I went through something similar. I just started back at work 4 months after having had my 1st little and 2 months later, pregnant again. I understand where you're coming from. It is beautiful watching your littles when they're so close in age. They develop such a strong and beautiful bond. You guys will figure it out. If you do plan on working, then i advise you not to disclose your pregnancy until you've got a little more time in. And if you will be a sahm, as i said, you guys will figure it out. You got this, Mama, whatever you guys decide 💪🏼
all will fall into place whatever you decide to do- sending love x
Same with me I continue to keep getting pregnant. One kid ended up being four kids. I'm not going to tell you that it is going to be a super easy but children are a blessing.
Don’t abort!
Don’t listen to anybody else, do what is best for you & your own family.
My first 2 kids were 19 months apart 3rd and 4 kids were 19 days short of 1 year apart and my 5th and 6th are 2 years apart so I totally understand what your going through I also am extremely low income
@Cassie how did you manage?
@Kamara (Kam) I've been hoping for something like this to happen to me lol I want another but my man is too safe with condoms 😒
I just pray for clarity, I hope nothing but the best and the Lord believed it was your time again or else he wouldn’t have don’t that ❤️❤️
@Magnolia one day at a time hahaha and a lot of dum luck but really it is hard at times but I learned early on to not need all the luxurys had to down size and only pay for things I absolutely need rather then the things I want so I live a very different way then most and don't have all that much stuff but it's simpler then most think too
Oh I know how you feel. With my last child he was totally unexpected. At first I was so disappointed and sad because financially we were not ready. I was scared too because I suffer with ppd/ppa. Abortion crossed my mind so much at the beginning. My middle child was getting ready to go to pre k and I was planning to work full time. Buy a house etc. I didn’t have the heart to do it so we kept the baby. It’s hard I cant lie but I know things will fall into place. I work 2 days a week do some volunteer work and get a little cash for it. We are very limited in our money but I know its just for a few years.
I do tiktok and make money off it !!! Trt digital marketing!! Money in there
@Cynthia ( Mommyonzeego) not ur place.
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HEY I JUST SAW THIS !!!! If my story can help than that’s just Amazing! Me and my boyfriend were financially busted when we had our first baby boy we were sooo not ready for but we became ready and made it happen I got pregnant when he was 3 months old . Personally I don’t believe in abortions but I would never judge !!!!! We knew that was no option and knew we had to do this no matter what. Today my son will be 2 in 30 minutes and his little brother 1 in 6 days 🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵 they are BESTFRIENDS it’s the hardest thing in the world but so worth it so rewarding and it’s everything to see them interact with one another ❣️
I did it girl basically had 2 under 1. If he was born 6 days prior!
I got caught with my 4th when my 3rd was 5months old x
My second baby is 6 months old and I’m 10 weeks pregnant with twins, I’m so pissed at myself but I’m here now 🤷♀️
My fiancé has 3 kids that are all born in the same month a year apart. He said it was horrible with all the diapers and them not being in the same size, but after you see them grow up together and being close in age... It's worth it. Now they're 11, 10, and 9. They're a handful, but they learn from each other every day and help each other. We don't have a lot of money, but we still make it work.
@Sharnee oh my god they are BEAUTIFUL
@Cynthia ( Mommyonzeego) terrible comment.
It’s okay y’all, I understand abortion is something a lot of women feel very strongly about. Everyone is entitled to their opinion.
@Salena get your followers to 5000k then u can go into product affiliation
I had an abortion because we couldn't afford another child sometimes you have to do what is necessary