How did you talk your husband to wanting another baby?
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@Cierra he always says not right now 😂😭
It’s best not to force anything. My husband is the one who wants another and I’m like “not right now” so he respects that and is waiting till I’m ready. But he knows my reasons of why I’m not ready and I know his reasons of why he wants one right now. It’s important that you both feel ready and comfortable. It’s a good idea to sit down and have a discussion about both of your reasonings of why you want to/don’t want another kid right now.
@Kirsty his reasoning is money he wants to be financially stable before baby #2 my reasoning is I want our babies to be close in age and I don’t want to be 30+ before having another one I’m 25
What got through to my partner was how important it is to have siblings.. he finally came around when our son was almost 3 which was basically too late to have a good age gap. Our kids are almost 4yrs apart and they finally play together. He always says he regrets not trying sooner and him holding out so long and I’m just like 😡 yeah… but we love our kids and I guess in the end it’s good we both agreed to what we were getting into
Listen you still have time your only 25 I am almost 27 finally trying for baby 2 mine told me we would never have another but here we are it took him some time but he finally got on board just sit him down and tell him why you want to start trying and see if y’all can compromise on a time or something
I’d just casually ask how he’d feel about having another and see what his response is 🤷🏽♀️