Panicking

Wow! Those people are not helpful at all. You are not screwed. Honestly, it is hard in the beginning but as long as you and your partner work together as team, you will be fine! Communicate well and direct, take your time, allow everyone grace. My girls are 19 months apart. It was hard! But this little bit is only for a short while and then all of a sudden, you’ll find a routine that works for everyone and you’ll take it in your stride. You can do it.

I’m 35 weeks and have a 19 month old, I understand the panic! Everyone has something playfully negative to say (except my immediate family). I’m hoping a routine sets in and it becomes bearable like it did with my first.

I’m also 38weeks with a 13month old, we’ve got this mumma! X

I wouldn’t worry about those people I have twins due September and I have a 8 month old I hear all the time why did you plan this? Didn’t you take contraception! Are you insane? Do you need a bigger car now you have 5 kids? Like a school bus and what kind of buggy? My response unless your my village or support system it’s no worry of yours they are my babies 👶

I have - 19 month old( who doesn’t walk) and 3 month old . It is hard in beginning but gets easier , just accept any help or support that is offered xxxx