Just need to vent or maybe need advice
My child’s father and I have been through ALOT in the last 5 years we’ve been together. We’ve been separated for almost a year and about a month since he moved out of state. A part of me really wants to give us another chance but the other part of me just can’t get past the things he’s done to me and vice versa. I love him but idk if it’s deep enough to put in the work to make it work.
I guess the main reason is because he left his kids and moved to a new state. He doesn’t ask how they are doing or what they’re up to, doesn’t ask for pictures, doesn’t ask to hear their voice, he just tells me to tell them he loves and misses them which really bothers me and I don’t know if I want to be with a man who cares being with me more than being there for his kids physically and emotionally.
Why do you think its an option? You guys have been seperated for a year and he has moved to another state..he clearly is moving on and doesn't want to be with you..his relationship with his kids is disappointing but you can't force it..he is the one that's missing out ...that does take time to accept..but I would just be working on you and your kids and putting him where he belongs..in the past. You might some therapy as it sounds like you're still needing to talk about the things you went through with him and work on moving on, do things you love .forget about him