Getting back to sex

Anyone else 11 weeks PP and got absolutely no interest? My partner and I are like ships in the night, the baby is ALWAYS awake and I just can’t see how we’d fit it in, let alone actually wanting it?!

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I haven’t got any interest since my first lol 😂 😂 for me it never came back like before and i’m only 25 but i feel like a 60 grandma

Actually couldn’t think of anything worse than someone touching me right now lol.. I’m 11 weeks PP too not wanted it since before falling pregnant absolutely no interest

Can you have a date night away from the baby once a month? And a few wines lol that always gets me in the mood. Also remembering why you are with your partner to begin with, all the nice romantic things they have done in the past and reflecting on what it was like when you first got together helps me. But no I don’t have much interest when it’s bedtime I’m shattered, sometimes I want it more early in morning if the babies are still asleep and sometimes quickies in the day if we are both home. When you are less tired it definitely will get back to normal anyway though, after my first I didn’t have a sex drive until my baby slept through the night, luckily my second baby sleeps quite well now so I have more of one. Sorry it’s such a long message but make sure you make time for your marriage and that you’re not just parents or room mates if you can! Even if it means cuddling ten minutes before bed before you both go into different rooms just to boost some oxytocin!