Just annoying

He and our 5 years old are sending voice notes back and forth. He says love you can't wait to see you. Which he hasn't done in 3 months. She asked him when? His reply was a snarky ask your mom. My answer to her was we had to figure it out... hopefully soon. This was our interaction after. I'm not trying to keep him from them. I've told him he's welcome to come here. I live with family who's not his biggest fan. Especially right now. But if he came, we could hang out outside and there's places near. I even told him I was fine with hanging out at his place.. but we'd have to find a way to get us there. Since right now, the only car we ( to borrow here) have is messed up. Just annoys me for the girls that it can't be a simple okay.. I can on this day and there be follow through. His bitter because I stated I wasn't comfortable with them doing over nights with him alone. As well as our own personal problems... that shouldn't have to do with him coming to see them.

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Does he have a car

From now on every week just tell him, "I'm available on this day and this day at this time through this time. If those don't work for you, provide me dates and times when you are available and I'll do my best to make it work." That's all you need to say then take screenshots of his responses, print them out and save them in a folder. Do not reply to his snarky responses with anything other than "I'm trying my best to make sure you have a relationship with your kids but if you don't want to spend time with them, that's on you. Don't regret it later." Take screenshots of his reply and save those as well. If for any reason you need to go to court, those screenshots will help you, also if he tries to poison your children against you (which it looks like he is doing by blaming you for his absence) you can also show them the proof of your many attempts.

@Ciara not currently.

@Kimarys that's another thing I don't look forward to. If he does those remarks on the phone. Don't put it pass him to do it in person.

He won't take responsibility for his actions (or lack there of) and will blame you. He's already doing it and will continue to do so