Is it right to say if he didn't respect your wishes he SA you? It sounds this way and you need to report that and find your feet !x
@Beth i wouldnt say it is SA i definitely was accepting of the intimacy. But he just simply chooses to be lazy and not pull out etc so just selfishness really.
@Priscilla sadly leaving changes nothing. I went to leave. I packed everything and left and it only made him breakdown. He hasnt changed his ways what so ever, i am so controlled and manipulated. Not allowed to visit my family. I have friends who havent even met my son. And my family arent allowed at my house because he “ hates them too” he has just truly isolated me and made sure i have nothing that i solely own so he is depended on.
Not leaving for good lol leave to have time for yourself and make him have to take care of the children
@Priscilla not allowed that either because “ fuel costs money” and im a SAHM so im pretty much allowed to do groceries thats it before its an issue. I leave on a monday. With bub for shopping. Thats it. Otherwise im home. All day everyday while he works
Go grocery shopping only when he's home, start working out only when he's home just go for a walk no has there lol
I've only has the pill but I can't imagine you'll be able to take care of baby, I feel this is ne too I know I'm super Fertile but I want my cycles to naturally regulate I will say my guy was the same for a while until I stop enabling him to be an absent parent Gurl I started leaving! I'd say I'll be back in an hour or two baby ate at this time I'll feed when I'm back and leave! I'm nursing so that's why I'd say I'll feed when I get back After giving him doses of my reality he started helping so much without me asking