Paternity test
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Why isn’t your partner shutting this down, weird little boy behavior. Sorry you’re going through that
If they want a paternity test so bad then I feel they should be the ones responsible for paying for it or finding s free one. It's the very least they could do
Up to you if you consent to it, personally I'd tell them to get lost, but if you do it to keep the peace the least they can do is research and/or pay for it! Ridiculous behaviour from them.
@Alicia I totally agree! If they are the ones wanting it, its only fair for them to pay for it
That’s so hard, and completely out of their place to demand that. If you’re willing to do it, you should definitely get them to pay for it!
Sorry you're going through this, I don't know where is your partner and what he thinks about his family behaviour, try to not stress let them do the work finding a free test or paid its their job not yours and please don't give them any chance to ruin your journey of motherhood just enjoy it
They have no right to demand this information. I would laugh in their faces. That’s between you and your partner. And if there’s any question, his family doesn’t ever need to know whether you guys did or didn’t do a paternity test. Absolutely ridiculous
Its your body your choice and your baby! I would if not able to find a free one and your 100% confident and comfortable with doing a paternity test once baby is born then they can find the money for it if can't get free and they can request it and get it booked. It's not you wanting it so why should you pay or find the means on how to do it or put stress on yourself! If there this callous and nasty about it then they can sort it and it's your choice whether you do or don't. Also what is your partner saying about this ? Surely he should speak up and either say he wants one done or to shut down his family from putting stress and doubt on you at 27 weeks pregnant. They for sure would already tbh be cut off and my baby would not be trusted in their hands ever if they can't even trust you as the mother of the child! Grandparents think they have to much authority and it's not their child so they are really going to ruin any relationship with you and the baby if they behave in such ways!
I don’t think you can get a dna test for free unless it’s through the hospital once baby is born right after but I’m sorry you’re even going through this 😢 this should be a happy & stress free time for you right now. If you happen to get a dna test once you’re proven right I would definitely cut them off for a while from seeing baby. Remember to keep your emotions in check as much as possible. Baby can feel everything you feel.