Problems as a pimary feeder

My almost 7mo has started solids and he is LOVING every minute of it! Problem is my husband hardly ever feeds him purées, solids, etc because it’s “too messy.” I’ve been having health issues and asked him to take over feeding tonight (spaghetti) and hubs got some on his hand and freaked out and said that he knows to wear gloves next time… is it wrong for me to feel furious, disappointed and so turned off by this?… At least he’s giving baby a bath 😅
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No I'd be pissed. Idk if your breastfeeding but I am so not only am I the only one doing all the feedings but also the solids? Absolutely not.

I’d be upset too!! It never feels fair when you ask for help with any baby task and they don’t want to do it just because it’s not convenient or easy for them

Lmfao - girl I got the ick for you

I know this isn't reddit but...you are NTA! (Not the a**hole) lol for you non-reddit peeps. With babies, come messes. You cannot avoid this. I'm going to assume he doesn't change poo diapers either?

I would also add that if you are going to give your husband a task with baby, give him space to figure it out on his own (like literally go to another room). Let him figure out his own way to do things. If he wants to wear gloves then fine let him wear gloves. The. with you in another room you won’t be seeing anything that will get you frustrated. So win/win

@Maribel thankfully he DOES change the dirty diapers. Arguably more than I did before he went back to work 😂 which is why the food is a shock to me!

@Sarah you are right. As long as the baby is safe and healthy! We are going to have our own ways of raising our nugget. We all still love each other at the end of the day

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