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No judgment but do you need help? Is there a situation going on? You have huge wounds internally and externally - it's a bit hard to not go to SA - you are super super vulnerable for infection and you must be in pain? Please ignore if all OK - just worried for you but if you're just having gentle kind reconnecting pokeypokes and living the dream then u do u 😉
@Heidi I kind of felt pressured but I hope it's just an evap
It can last 4 weeks so unlikely that you are pregnant again! Xx
Hoping you can suggest some other cuddly activities rather than pen sex tbh as that will be better for your body for a while, don't let him pressure you if you are in pain
@Heidi I told him I was but he will "cheat" if I don't do what he wants. It's frustrating. I have been telling him no and now he wants a torso
I am so angry for you rn. He is manipulating you and if he can’t keep his panties on for a few weeks to allow you to heal and recover he is worthless and you shouldn’t sacrifice your health for someone so disgusting. Next time he makes this threat just tell him to go ahead. Doubt he’ll find anyone to take in his sorry ass. Some men think they’re all the rage when they are joke. 😡
hCG can last up to 6 weeks. Girl that's sexual coercion and illegal in most states.. I'm sorry, it's definitely possible to get pregnant , I ovulated with my first around 2 weeks PP but depending on when you got the implant you should be good, good luck and hopefully you're doing okay
@Favi I gave birth October 20th and got the nexplanon 2 days after c section then the deed exactly 2 weeks 2 days and I'm currently 3 weeks 3 days postpartum. He hase ride which hurt so bad.
It should start working 7days after inserted which in this case seems like its within the timeline? Although some birth control work immediately as long as it's 21 days or sooner while pregnant I'm not sure if this is one of them? Either way looks like its more likely to be residual hCG. Girl I'm sorry but I'm also so angry at him for you.. Throw him in the trash seriously. Not only did you just give birth but you had a MAJOR abdominal surgery where they cut multiple layers of your tissue, muscle and fat. I understand having needs but no one, would do this to someone they love 😔 I hope it's just leftover hCG, good luck
@Favi I hope it's leftover bc when I first took the test it looked negative but then I looked right at the time frame and I got this
Then the one above is at exactly the last minute it was readable
I know this isn’t what you asked, but please leave your partner. It’ll be hard, but so worth it if he can’t respect the woman who just pushed out y’all’s entire human. If he’s telling you he will cheat, especially this way, my love 9/10 he already did or is. That’s disgusting, he is threatening your health, and clearly doesn’t care if you are at your best to raise y’all’s baby. This isn’t a joke, you could cause life long damages to your body, trust me I know.
@Alex he just told me today that a chick was going to come over to help clean but I don't know this person and she has already tried flirting with him so I told him I don't feel comfortable and he got upset bc I messaged her and said I don't know her and don't want her over. I pay half the rent here
It’s not impossible to be pregnant, but very unlikely since you have Nexp. Its one of the best methods of birth control because it’s doesn’t release the same kind of hormones the others do. It’s suppose to thin your walls etc, so the semen can’t make it, no ovulation, no egg dropping. You aren’t suppose to have actual periods either. But if you are, man oh man bless your heart.
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@Alex I agree with this but as long as OP has somewhere safe to go. Tbh I think it's what you're thinking OP, he's trying to cheat with this women or already has, what a disgusting man. I hope he's at least helpful with the baby. Otherwise he's really not contributing a dam thing
@Favi I’m not saying leave immediately, but leave. Where they are isn’t anymore safe than figuring it out alone. If he’s actively sleeping with other women and her while she is wide open he could give her life threatening diseases! How can she be the best for baby or even herself if she can’t have the space to heal. It’s so disgusting!
Oh man, how old are y’all if you don’t mind me asking? This is beyond disgusting, I really hope you find some kind of salvation, truly.
@Alex I don't have periods at all
@Alex I'm going to be 31 on the 29th
If you are meaning from the implant you aren’t suppose to have them, at least from what I was told from my OB, so that’s not exactly terrible. I’ve had a consistent, “period,” since I got the implant 2 years ago. I was told it was irregular bleeding from the hormones being released and not actual periods. If you mean in general have you ever been checked for PCOS?
His behaviour is unacceptable and I hope you find the strength to leave this man 🥺
I’d suggest you do another in a week but to calm your nerves a bit in the meantime it’s technically impossible to get pregnant in the first 20 days after you give birth.