Arguments

My husband has been very irritated lately and when I do something to annoy him he starts these arguments that I just can’t win/deescalate regardless of what I say so I usually just say nothing and let him be upset and go to the other room for a hour or so. But lately he’s been talking about us not being together and him leaving . He’s also said on occasion that if it wasn’t for our 1yy y o he’d be gone already… I’m a sahm and have zero 0 savings so when he says this I’m legit terrified Then he’ll come out of the room and act like everything is fine and not understand why I’m still upset.
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I wouldn’t take anything that he said lightly, start working on yourself mama. Have a conversation about how you feel and what he’s saying or if you need to find work and so you can feel more secure. Even if you don’t have any saving try to get a certificate or something you can use to find work easily. So if he ever acts on his word you won’t feel completely stranded. Don’t ever feel afraid to do it on your own or start over.

@Shantel I’ve been applying to remote jobs for months. I never get a call back. I have looked into the certs but I don’t have the money to apply and get one… I try to save a little each month and it always ends up getting spent on bills or food or baby stuff. Due to past personal trauma I don’t trust anyone else with my baby so daycare can’t happen. It would have to be a work from home job.

Okay I understand about childcare. I know finding a work from home job these days is hard, if you have TikTok there’s post about remote jobs u can do more applications for. And I was told if u get a job at a daycare your baby gets a discount for goes for free and you’ll be able to watch over them. Ask around and see if anyone would like a babysitter for their kid. There’s Amazon flex too, early morning runs is easier when u gotta take your baby with you. I did it for a while

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