baby daddy doesn’t acknowledge his kids

so… i’m not hating on my baby’s father because he does take care of our daughter and i am very grateful for that by all means. but there’s been one thing that bothers the absolute HELL out of me and it’s that he doesn’t acknowledge my daughter or his other 2 sons. he doesn’t post them, doesn’t proudly talk about them.. is this something that you would see as an issue even if he does his part as their dad? like i said im not hating i am blessed and i do understand that. but something about him not being able to show them off makes me think he isn’t proud of them and he’s doing it because he just loves the attention from other females? help 😅

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I hate social media. I hate that there is this push to make people have to post things about their lives. I’m a private person. I told my BD I don’t want anything about the pregnancy on Facebook. It’s not that I am not happy I am pregnant, it’s that I don’t owe random people an explanation of my life. I don’t think it’s a bad thing he doesn’t post them, maybe he doesn’t want his kids faces on the internet. I get that. I’m on the fence about even posting when my kid is here. The internet is just a mean and judgmental place. If he’s active in their lives and the important people in his life know all about his kids, why would he have to post a picture of them so random people online can see it?

If you looked at my social media you would have no idea I have a daughter and that’s the way her dad and I plan to keep it. I wouldn’t see this as an issue at all.

Whenever I was younger this was an issue for me. I could care less now, honestly better to be private. You can be a good parent and not have your children all over social media. As long as he’s a good father in real life, that’s all that should matter

If you look at my social media You’de have no idea I have a kid. He’ll sometimes get posted on private stories that only family and friends see but even then his face is covered or he is turned away. Not sure why posting kids on social media is the only way a parent can show them off. I talk about my kid all the time. But as someone looking on just socials you wouldn’t know it.

Kids shouldn't be on social media. There's other ways to acknowledge them in private life. Now if he post a lot, he should be posting YOU because you are a grown up and can consent to it. If he is discreet about his life and doesn't post anything I don't see any issue at now even posting you.

@Emily we aren’t together so he has his own life but like whenever i met him, he had kids and told me he didn’t and i just feel like that’s something i should have known about yk? not as anything serious bc yes i did lay down and did the crime but i felt as if it was really disrespectful to his other bm and definitely to his kids too.

Ahh I see your issue here! That definitely complicates things. Are you still with him?

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