Am I just ungrateful?

Before I start let's be clear he didn't call me ungrateful it's just how I feel for being annoyed. My husband loves his child but has always said that he doesn't like baby's only when they're 'cute tolddlers' then when they talk back as well. I always thought it was other people's kids turns out it feels like ours . Our baby is 7 weeks today but he doesn't have much input I feel like a single parent . But then I'm also worried he has post partum depression or is it ge really just doesn't like babies 😒. He doesn't do night feeds I agreed for the week as he had work but I thought we'd share on weekends. We don't. He's out every Friday at the pub granted a hour only sometimes two but it's not the point. Hell say oh you go out I'll have him for the sake of offering because you can hear it in the sighs and eye rolling when he has him that he really doesn't want to . Am I just ungrateful because there's the very odd time he will take without asking and bother with him for ten minutes. Or should I stop whining and be grateful he's still here.

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Oh hell no that to me sound like he never wanted kids n should have been open about it I mean I get it with not liking kids lol I don't either but I tolerated other kids an mine so far is golden but I am not ready for the talk back when she 16 But if he already doing this just run an u might be better off being a single could care less that he around

let him do it when he offers, fuck the sighs and the eye rolls. he's doing all of that drama so that you'll say nevermind, but so that he can say at least he tried. don't let him off the hook, you are both parents and it is up to both of yall to help each other out as well as be parents to your baby.

I mean I don’t “like” babies like others around me seem to. As in I won’t fawn over them, ask to hold etc. like unless I love the parents I couldn’t care less. BUT with my own children I’m entirely dedicated. This would be a red flag for me.

Nope he never wanted kids! My bd was the same, it’s a narc trait. Good at pretending with all these promises they make with you in the beginning love bombing stage but when it actually happens, then they get angry at you and you’ll see their true colours 😢 say they want this and that but their actions let you know a different side, my bd has never helped me with night feeds, complains if I ask to help with our babies, thinking that changing 1 diaper a month or two is considered a good dad or will only act like a dad around his family and friends & then they’ll praise him and tell me how lucky I am 🤬 ( like wtf 🙃 ) but yeah so many 💩 like that and don’t get me started on his drinking cycle as well! Mines lead to abuse before & after kids then verbal abuse to financial abuse and so much more that I’m so exhausted and tapped out 😵‍💫. I hope things don’t get bad for you but it sounds like it might start too if it’s not sorted now. Just get him to be honest, no bs and set boundaries

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