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They say don’t make any life changing decisions 1 year postpartum Your hormones are everywhere right now
Have you tried discussing and letting him know you want him there? I feel like it makes sense for him to work since bills add up. Unless you guys are making money then in that case he could spare a day.
@Amy thank you Amy no before the baby everything was fine but now things are getting worse, am a quiet person I don’t talk much, when I feel overwhelmed I just want to hide away, am afraid to say something that I know it will hurt him and I won’t feel bad about it.. Whenever I think about talking to him it makes me mad
@Mizzy yes I have many times but he will change for 2 days and then he will go back to annoying me again
@Karly woow 1 year?? Do I need therapy? Because I don’t think I can hold on for 1 year
I needed some therapy to get me through that initial period. Around the birth I had too though. Honestly the best thing you can do is communicate, when you’re feeling calm, explain how you feel, you don’t want to hurt him , no, but it’s so important to talk about wahts going on xx
Sorry you’re going through this but were these issues there pre baby? If not your best bet is to communicate with him, don’t call it a day yet because PP can mess with your hormones so much. I remember feeling so so angry at my partner (everyone but particularly my partner) for absolutely no reason. I felt like I had because a person I didn’t like or even know. I’ve still never felt to distant from my partner and this is only since having our little boy. We will make it work and eventually have time for one another but right now it’s so so tough and we are trying to find a balance while navigating parenthood. That being said if these issues aren’t new and they’ve always been there it may worth having a serious conversation about moving forward xx